Just because someone doesn’t say” thank you” doesn’t mean they don’t appreciate you. Not everyone uses words to express their gratitude.
Sexual desire can often be triggered, or dampened, by environmental stimuli:
To avoid ruining the mood, remove the following types of items from your bedroom:
Photos of your parents or children ( which people sometimes feel are” staring” at them). The some goes for pets who like to hang out on or by your bed. Stacks of your papers, books, and work-related files ( and clutter more generally ).
To help set the mood:
Select lighting that can be dimmed or light candles. A soft, low-watt, full-spectrum bulb provides the most favorable lighting.
Let some fresh air into your room and use incense, essential oil, or lightly scented candles to create pleasant smells (go for subtle smells-spraying cologne or perfume into the air can sometimes be too intense and overpowering).