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The Consequences of Delaying Your Life’s True Direction: A Reflection on My Encounter with Mr. Charles

Sir. Paul Okwudili Agbo
7 min readSep 16, 2024

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Delaying the pursuit of one’s true direction in life is a concept that resonates deeply with many people, especially in today’s fast-paced world. There are numerous reasons why individuals hesitate or delay following their chosen path, and the consequences of such delays can vary widely from person to person. When i asked why my friend, Mr. Charles, seemed to be waiting until old age to follow his direction in life, i stumbled upon a universal question: Why do people wait to embrace their true calling?

This reflection comes after my recent encounter with Mr. Charles, a chance meeting during my trip back home. As i exchanged greetings, shared stories about family and friends, and enjoyed a meal together, the conversation naturally drifted to his son. I learned that Mr. Charles’s son had ventured into the career of becoming a native doctor, a path that surprised me. I shared my knowledge that his son had pursued this direction while still engaging in other activities. Charles responded, hinting that perhaps his son had always known this was his calling, but had delayed fully committing to it, even though it seemed to be his destined path.

This conversation led me to ponder why people delay following the direction they know is right for them. In Mr…

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Sir. Paul Okwudili Agbo
Sir. Paul Okwudili Agbo

Written by Sir. Paul Okwudili Agbo

Sir.Paul Okwudili Agbo, MD of Starconnectdots Ltd, specializes in internet marketing, entrepreneurship, storytelling, and travel affiliate marketing.

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